Friday, February 8, 2013
collective pep talk
I think nearly everyone I'm close to is going through some serious stuff right now (including myself). It's in the air. So here is a collective pep talk for all of them and you and me. Take what works for you and pass it on. We need it right now..................xo
You are awesome. I know you're having a hard time seeing that now, but you trust me, don't you? So then, listen up: YOU ARE AWESOME. Step into knowing that.
You're gonna be fine. Remember the last time you were in that pickle and got yourself out of it? You are STRONG and remarkably CAPABLE and Unseen Universal Forces are moving to support you and line things up for you that will THRILL you. Your job in all of this? Get in a appreciative, happy space. Look for things that you want to see. Like attracts like.
Why on earth would you quit drinking coffee at a time like this? Just bless it and enjoy it.
Quit comparing yourself to others. Everyone is on a different path and we all have different gifts to share with the world. To that end, quit judging others. You have no idea what their life is like and what they're going through.
Quit being so hard on yourself. From where I stand? You're a freaking CHAMP. Try owning that. It's a shame that we believe it's polite to be self-effacing. It's time to unapologetically stand in your Greatness.
Have the courage to let life look differently than you thought it should. So what if you're not ___________ by the age of___________ ?! Or that you don't have a ___________ before ___________ . You are a million other fantastic things. And you have a million other gifts. Get over it.
Count your blessings. This sounds so cliche but really do it. Sit down and write some things down that are truly lovely and beautiful in your life. Even if it's a roof over your head. And coffee. Seriously.
Go find your mojo. Make YOU the most important thing. I know you have responsibilities but find (make!) time to nurture yourself, even in the smallest way. You will have loads more to give others by doing so. Plus, your "selfishness" will inspire your kids and friends and everyone around you to nurture themselves and that is one of the biggest gifts you can give them.
If you are stuck between two sides of a decision, remember: there is no right or wrong answer. All that matters is that you line up with your heart and take the leap. There is tremendous power in expectation. If you expect to thrive, you will seek it and create it. And guess what? You can always make a different decision later.
It's okay to lean on your friends. That's why they/we exist. Ask for help.
Turn off your phone. Have the courage to do nothing in public. Look around. See the sky and the trees and strike up conversations with nice strangers. Connect. We need each other.
It takes a bit of effort to feel good. It's so much easier to just react to all the things going on around us but if you spend a little bit of time focusing your thought on good things, more will follow. I promise.
Life is supposed to be a fun ride! (SEE PHOTO ABOVE.)
Love Love Love,
P.S. You look amazing. I love what you're doing with your hair.